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	<title>Comments on: The best laid plans of mice and monsters</title>
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	<description>So you fancy yourself a writer, do ya punk?</description>
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		<title>By: Paul</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2008 22:43:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Travis.

Yeah, I saw the &#039;collect 10 rejections&#039; challenge and it gave me a chuckle. It reminds me of my work in the counselling world, we would call that &#039;positive reframing&#039;. Or if you want the $20 word version favoured by psychologists and psychiatrists - &#039;Ericksonian paradoxical intention&#039;.

Anyway, whatever you want to call it, it&#039;s a great way of empowering you to endure the pain of rejection. Inside all of us lurks the awkward teenager who remembers that injury keenly. Or maybe that&#039;s just me :-)

I see from your blog that you&#039;re Canadian. I lived in Canada for 3 years in what seems like a previous life now - Victoria, BC to be exact. I remember it fondly. Canada is a wonderful place.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Travis.</p>
<p>Yeah, I saw the &#8216;collect 10 rejections&#8217; challenge and it gave me a chuckle. It reminds me of my work in the counselling world, we would call that &#8216;positive reframing&#8217;. Or if you want the $20 word version favoured by psychologists and psychiatrists &#8211; &#8216;Ericksonian paradoxical intention&#8217;.</p>
<p>Anyway, whatever you want to call it, it&#8217;s a great way of empowering you to endure the pain of rejection. Inside all of us lurks the awkward teenager who remembers that injury keenly. Or maybe that&#8217;s just me <img src='http://sparkintheumbra.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I see from your blog that you&#8217;re Canadian. I lived in Canada for 3 years in what seems like a previous life now &#8211; Victoria, BC to be exact. I remember it fondly. Canada is a wonderful place.</p>
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		<title>By: Travis Cottreau</title>
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		<dc:creator>Travis Cottreau</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2008 20:46:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey,

Congrats on finding Kiwiwriters. It is a great site with almost every level of writer on there. It will probably be a little quieter in November, since it&#039;s Nanowrimo month.

Someone posted a brilliant challenge - collect 10 rejection letters in a year. This strategy completely takes the pressure off and gets you to look forward to that rejection letter, something that would normally scare the bejesus out of you.

Have fun and I&#039;ll hopefully see you on there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey,</p>
<p>Congrats on finding Kiwiwriters. It is a great site with almost every level of writer on there. It will probably be a little quieter in November, since it&#8217;s Nanowrimo month.</p>
<p>Someone posted a brilliant challenge &#8211; collect 10 rejection letters in a year. This strategy completely takes the pressure off and gets you to look forward to that rejection letter, something that would normally scare the bejesus out of you.</p>
<p>Have fun and I&#8217;ll hopefully see you on there.</p>
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